Thursday, December 28, 2023

Surprise Plant

Dear Sawyer,

You and your older siblings have your own bathroom and I don't go in there often because you guys are responsible for keeping it clean. But clearly, I need to start checking it more frequently because I glanced in there today and noticed a small weed growing out of the sink drain. Um, what? Last week, you did mention to me that there was "a plant in the bathroom" and I had no idea what you were talking about but I was in the midst of dinner/laundry/homework craziness so I didn't follow up. Now I see what you were talking about. I don't know what you guys have been doing (other than obviously NOT cleaning the sink) but all of the bacteria, mold and gunk in your sink drain have somehow sprouted plant life??? I am perplexed!

Love,
Mom

Monday, December 18, 2023

Laugh Track

Dear Sawyer,

Ever since you were a tiny little Sawyer, there is one thing that completely cracks you up like nothing else: watching someone accidentally bump into a wall. When you were 3 or 4 years old, we saw a commercial where an elevator door opens up but there is a wall inside the elevator so this unsuspecting guy walks into the elevator, only to crash into the wall (I have absolutely no idea what the commercial was for). You laughed SO HARD. And your laugh is so cute that I replayed the commercial over and over just to hear it. I think I replayed the commercial about a dozen times and each time, you released a fit of giggles! And to this day, you laugh uncontrollably when you see someone walk straight into a wall. MuiMui was trying keep up with me the other day and wasn't paying attention to her surroundings, so she walked into the dining room wall and you LOST it! (MuiMui was okay, so it's fine that you were laughing. Kind of.)

There is only one other thing that has made you laugh harder than when someone crashed into a wall. One time, I told you this joke: "A bear and a rabbit are standing next to each other in the woods. The bear turns to the rabbit and asks, 'Do you have a problem with poop sticking to your fur?' The rabbit answers, 'No, I don't.' So the bear picks the rabbit up and uses him to wipe his butt." The second you understood that the bear used the rabbit for toilet paper, you giggled like crazy! You giggled so hard, you walked over to your bed and fell onto it in a fit of giggles. You got up, still laughing, and even slapped your leg a few times in your merriment. And everyone in our family started laughing, too, because your giggles were so infectious! Oh Sawyer, I hope your laugh never changes!

Love,
Mom

Monday, November 20, 2023

Museum Day

Dear Sawyer,

Today, I was lucky enough to be a parent chaperone for your class trip to The Metropolitan Museum of Art. I was excited that your teacher picked me because a) it was the first time I got to chaperone one of your class trips and b) it was your first time going to The Met and I was glad to be there with you.

You and I have gone to the American Museum of Natural History many times because, duh, dinosaurs but I never took you to The Met because I didn't think you'd be interested in the art. I was waiting for you to be a little older but I shouldn't have because you really enjoyed seeing all of the different sculptures and paintings today. Your class split into several groups and the tour guide for our group took us on a kind of "greatest hits" tour of the museum where we saw works by Monet, Degas, Renoir, Picasso, Pollack and Twombly. You listened intently to what she said about each piece we stopped to look at and said Monet's "Water Lilies" was your favorite artwork.

My favorite? How happy you looked when we sat next to each other on the bus rides to and from the museum. The other chaperones' kids sat with their friends but you said you wanted to sit next to me. And during the rides, you smiled up at me and hugged me several times. I could tell that you were really happy that I was there with you and I was touched that you are not "too cool" to hug your mom in front of your classmates. I had so much fun with you today, sweetie, and promise to take you back to The Met again soon!

Love,
Mom

Saturday, November 4, 2023

In Da Club

Dear Sawyer,

Every Friday, JieJie has a Fitness class where she and her classmates go to the school weight room and exercise. She was telling us about it at dinner last night and that prompted a conversation about how Daddy and I used to work out at a gym before we had kids. You and I had this exchange:

Me: I used to go to the gym every day from Sunday to Thursday. Then on Fridays and Saturdays, I went clubbing with my friends.
You: The chess club?
Me: Um, yes, exactly.
You: Nice! I got it on the first guess!

Hehehe :-)

Love,
Mom

Saturday, October 21, 2023

An Awesome Day for an Awesome Guy

Dear Sawyer,

We had a busy day today! First, we went to Chinatown and had a delicious dim sum meal with PoiPoi and my aunt and uncle. You had all of your favorites (sticky rice, shrimp dumplings, egg tarts) and also got to try bacon-wrapped shrimp for the first time. Afterward, we went to Chinatown Ice Cream Factory where you had a big scoop of mango ice cream. You have been really fascinated by 9/11 since watching a video about it in school this year, so we drove to the Financial District so that you could see the Freedom Tower and 9/11 Memorial. After that, I decided we needed to end the day on a more positive note, so we headed to Battery Park where we took a ride on the really cool SeaGlass Carousel (you initially had no interest in it until you saw that the seats were designed like giant fish and not just the standard merry-go-round horses) and walked along the water to take in views of the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island. With all that walking, we were soon hungry so we went back to Queens and had dinner at Taqueria Coatzingo, where you wolfed down your chicken quesadilla. At the end of the night, when I was helping you brush your teeth, you hugged me and said, "Thank you for making today awesome." You're welcome, little man!

Love,
Mom

Monday, September 18, 2023

Biker Boy

Dear Sawyer,

We don't get as much quality Mama-Sawyer time as I'd like but we did have a nice chunk of it this past Saturday when our family went to Rockaway Beach. Daddy took the other kids to the playground while you and I hopped on our bikes and rode down the boardwalk. It was so many of my favorite "b" things: biking, beach and my baby bear! I know you would have preferred to go to the playground (why does no one else in the family like biking and hiking like I do??) but you also still crave alone time with me, so you said you would do half biking/half playground. Thank your for spending the first half of the day with me! We rode to the western end of the boardwalk before turning around and then parked our bikes on the beach and walked across a jetty. You were a little scared to walk on top of the rocks but you did enjoy looking down between them to see the water and shells. I love how much you love collecting shells!

After we climbed down from the jetty, we got some arepas, empanadas and paletas before meeting up with the rest of the family. When everyone was finished eating, we headed back to the playground where Daddy decided to lift up the training wheels on your bike. You didn't want him to do it but he told you to just try it for a little bit and so you nervously pushed off and THEN YOU DID IT!!! You rode your bike without training wheels!!! I was so proud of you and you looked so proud of you! I loved how you were grinning and sticking the tip of your tongue out of the corner of your mouth while you were concentrating on, I guess, not falling? You were amazing!!! YAY!!!

Love,
Mom

Saturday, September 16, 2023

Brushing Buddies

Dear Sawyer,

You, MuiMui and I were all brushing our teeth in the bathroom this morning. You and MuiMui were standing over the tub and I was at the sink. I turned around to look at you and the two of you had your arms around each other while you were brushing. It. Was. SO. SWEET! I love witnessing these little moments between you guys!

Love,
Mom

Wednesday, September 13, 2023

No More Baby Songs

Dear Sawyer,

You had your fifth day of third grade today! This is a big year for you because a) you will be taking the New York State Exam for the first time and b) this will be your first time at your school without JieJie. This is also a notable year because apparently, up until second grade, the gym teacher always played the Kidz Bop versions of pop songs but you told me that when you had gym today as a newly minted third grader, the gym teacher played the actual versions of the songs. Well, now it's official! You are a big kid!

Love,
Mom

Sunday, July 23, 2023

The Baby Bunny Who Ate Too Many Carrots

Dear Sawyer,

JieJie just reminded me today about a bedtime story that I had made up years ago and used to tell you all of the time, at your request. It was about a baby bunny who loved eating carrots and it went like this:

"Once upon a time, there was a baby bunny who loved eating carrots. He loved eating carrots in the morning in his carrot oatmeal and carrot pancakes, he loved eating carrots in the afternoon in his carrot sandwiches and carrot juice and he loved eating carrots in the evening in his carrot soup and carrot pasta. In fact, he loved eating carrots so much that he didn't want to eat anything else. His parents tried to get him to eat other foods, like strawberries, spinach, chicken and fish but all he ever said was, "No! I only want to eat carrots! Carrots carrots carrots!" And so that's what his parents always cooked for him.

One morning, the baby bunny woke up and tried to get out of bed--but something was wrong! He had no legs! Or arms! He pushed his body off of the bed and managed to roll into the bathroom where he looked in the mirror--and saw that he had turned into a giant carrot! He had eaten so many carrots that he had actually turned into one! He rolled down the stairs and into the kitchen where his mom was making breakfast. He called out, "Mama! Mama!" His mom didn't look up because she was busy making carrot waffles. He called out again, "Mama! Mama!" This time, she looked up--and saw a giant carrot standing in her kitchen! She was so shocked that she fainted right there. The baby bunny's dad heard the commotion and came running into the kitchen. "Why is all this noise coming from the kitchen?" he asked. And then his next question was, "Why is there a giant carrot standing in the kitchen?!?" Then the baby bunny's sister came into the kitchen, "Is breakfast ready? My bus is going to be here soon. What is all this screaming about? OMG, is that a giant carrot?!?" The baby bunny cried out, "It's me! I turned into a carrot!!"

At this point, the baby bunny's mom had woken up and she said, "This is why you have to eat other foods! You can't only eat carrots!" The baby bunny said, "Okay, I will try other foods!" And so for the rest of the day, the baby bunny ate all kinds of things that he had never eaten before: corn, broccoli, watermelon, blackberries, grilled shrimp, meatloaf, beans, eggs--and he actually liked all of it! He said, "These foods are delicious!"

That night, the baby bunny went to bed. When he woke up the next morning, he hopped out of bed and ran to the bathroom mirror, where he saw that he was no longer a carrot--he was a baby bunny again! He ran down the stairs to tell his family and they all happily hugged each other! The baby bunny still likes to eat carrots--but he eats a lot of other foods, too! The end."

Okay, so my original story is not going to be turned into a published children's book anytime soon but for some reason, you really loved it and asked me to recite it to you night after night. I don't remember when you stopped asking for it and I actually hadn't thought about it in a long time. I'm not sure what made JieJie think of it all of a sudden but at least the story is now documented here in your blog. And maybe you'll tell it to your kid one day!

Love,
Mom

Thursday, June 1, 2023

You're Eight Years Old!

Dear Sawyer,

When I was in high school, one of my classmates had a theory that every person is his/her "true" self at the age of 8. According to her, that is when you have fully developed your personality and it is before societal pressures and stigmas affect how you think you should behave. There is obviously no science behind this and just from personal observation, I know that parental guidance and peer pressure influence behavior way before kids turn 8. However, if my classmate's theory is correct and you are your "true" self at age 8, then I am very proud of you because you turn 8 today and you are one awesome 8-year-old. Happy birthday, Baby Bear!

When I think of you, the first things I think about are your sweet smile and infectious laugh. You are such a happy guy and when something cracks you up, your laugh is so full of joy and amusement that it's hard not to laugh along with you. It's especially cute when you find something so funny, you laugh and slap your knee! And like many other 8-year-old boys, you laugh extra hard at potty humor!

In addition to dirty jokes, you also still love love love to read (your current favorite series are Wings of Fire, Wimpy Kid and Dog Man), build things with Legos, Plus Plus blocks and Keva planks and play with cars and dinosaurs. You enjoy drawing and spend lots of time drawing elaborate, detailed, three-dimensional drawings of vehicles, dinosaurs and houses (fittingly, you have told me that you either want to be a paleontologist or architect when you grow up). You like to play chess and are in the chess club at school. At home, you often play chess by yourself and even record your moves. You are a friendly kid with lots of buddies at school and you like to play soccer with them during recess. I have never let you play many video games but you are really into Minecraft and could spend all day playing it at the arcade--which is why I am acquiescing and taking you and your friends to Dave & Buster's this weekend to celebrate your birthday!

You are very polite and thoughtful and your teacher always tells me what a gentleman you are. You are a curious thinker and you're always wondering about why things are the way they are and what would happen if they were different. You are grateful and appreciative and thank Daddy and me for the things we do for you. You are also the most loving son. You always tell me that you love me and hug me all of the time. You ask me to say good night to you before you fall asleep every night and still like cuddling with me. And you always tell me that I'm beautiful. I am so lucky to have you and I love you so very much!

Love,
Mom

Monday, May 22, 2023

Beautiful The Way You Are

Dear Sawyer,

When you came home from school today, you said, "Mama, you look beautiful. You could go on a date like that." I was wearing a t-shirt (albeit my favorite koala t-shirt) and gray leggings and asked, "I look beautiful in this? It's so casual." You replied, "It's not your clothes that make you look beautiful. It's how you are." O. M. GEEEEEE!

Love,
Mom

Monday, May 15, 2023

Questions & Answers

Dear Sawyer,

I asked you some questions for fun and here are your answers:

How old am I? 42.
What is my favorite color? Purple.
What is my job? To be a mama.
What do I cook the best? Sausage soup.
What do you like to do with me? Draw.
Why do you love me? Because you are sweet and funny and you take care of me.
What is something I say a lot? Don't fight.
What makes me happy? When we are good.
What makes me sad? When we are bad.
How tall am I? I don't know, it's not like I measure you every day.
What am I really good at? Drawing, you're the best artist ever.
What is my favorite thing to do? Cook.
What is my favorite food? Scallops.
What is my favorite drink? The Coke that Daddy buys.
If I could go anywhere, where would I go? To France.
How do I annoy you? You don't.
What is my favorite TV show? I'm not sure, I guess something on Netflix.
What is my favorite music to listen to? BTS.
How much do you love me? Bigger than everything in the whole world.

Love,
Mom

Thursday, May 11, 2023

A Kiss Is Just A Kiss

Dear Sawyer,

I was wearing a Carnegie Mellon tank top and you asked me what Carnegie Mellon is. I told you that it's the name of the college that Daddy and I went to--and I added that if we hadn't gone there, you would not be standing where you were. You then said, "I know that you need the DNA from two people to make a baby . . . but how do you get the DNA together? Do you just kiss?" Um, yep! Just kiss!

Love,
Mom

Saturday, April 29, 2023

Roll This Way

Dear Sawyer,

You and MuiMui have literally thousands of dollars worth of toys and books. Minecraft Legos, Keva planks, Hot Wheels cars, Peppa Pig dollhouses, DC Super Hero Girls action figures, Barbies, TWO play kitchens and play food . . . it's a lot. And yet, today I watched as the two of you viscously wrestled over a PAPER TOWEL ROLL. You were fighting over who got to play with the PAPER. TOWEL. ROLL. *sigh*

Love,
Mom

Sunday, April 23, 2023

A Taste of Everything

Dear Sawyer,

One of your favorite things to eat for breakfast is an everything bagel topped with peanut butter and everything bagel seasoning. It's not for me but you love that combination! And then today, you had a pretzel roll with cookie butter and everything bagel seasoning. That is a lot of, um, interesting flavors all together!

Love,
Mom

Sunday, March 12, 2023

Secret Language

Dear Sawyer,

You are still my little sweetheart, always telling me how beautiful I am and how much you love me. You are constantly saying things to me such as:

"These [store-bought] cookies are good but yours are better."

"That sunset is beautiful but you are more beautiful."

"She looks pretty in that dress but you'd look prettier."

You: "This pasta is the best thing you ever made."
Me: "The plain pasta? All I did was boil water and put the pasta in it."
You: "Well, if Daddy boiled the water, it wouldn't taste as good."

That last one was a bit ridiculous but you are still so sweet to say so many nice things to me! I love that you tell me that you love me several times every day and that you have even devised a secret code to tell me. A few months ago, you informed me that every time you look at me, smile and squeeze your eyes shut really tightly, it's code for "I love you." And you do it all of the time, on top of telling me verbally. Thank you so much, Baby Bear! I love you so very much, too, and am so lucky to have a little boy who makes me feel so special!

Love,
Mom

Sunday, February 19, 2023

Mask Mix-up

Dear Sawyer,

We are going on vacation this week! And it will be our first flight since the pandemic hit. I am a little nervous and not sure what to expect but things have been "normal" for awhile now so I'm sure we will be fine (fingers crossed). We have actually been pretty lax about wearing face masks in public but I do want us to wear ones while we are on the plane so when I was packing today, I asked you to get several packs of Korean face masks for you and JieJie, referring to the Korean KN95 masks you wear to school every day. The following conversation ensued:

You: Why do I need Korean face masks?
Me: You have to wear them on the plane. It will be safer.
You: Why do I have to wear them on the plane?
Me: There is still Coronavirus and we will be in an enclosed space for a few hours. It's safer to wear them.
You: But why do I have to wear them on the plane?
Me [getting exasperated]: Because it's safer! 
You: Okay. Where are they?
Me: In your room! They are in the same spot when you need to get one for school!
You: Ohhhhh, you were talking about those face masks!

Turns out, you thought I was talking about the Korean sheet face masks that JieJie and I use when we want to pamper our skin. Hahahahaha! That's why you were so confused about why we needed masks for the plane ride! Hilarious! Well, you know, having soft, glowing skin also protects against Covid! Hahahaha!

Love,
Mom

Tuesday, February 7, 2023

Magic Numbers

Dear Sawyer,

I was cooking dinner tonight when you came into the kitchen and told me, "Do you know what my classmate Kenneth wants to be when he grows up? A mathemagician. I think that's someone who does math tricks." Hahaha! So cute!

Love,
Mom

Saturday, January 14, 2023

Cushioning the Fall

Dear Sawyer,

When MuiMui takes a nap, I usually stay with her until she falls asleep. Today, the two of you had been playing together so nicely all morning so when it was time for her nap, she asked you to stay with her and you did. You laid in bed next to her and when you eventually came downstairs after she'd fallen asleep, you told me that you had looked at how long she was and put a barrier next to the bed in case she rolled off. Later, after MuiMui had woken up and I went into your room, I saw exactly what you had done: You had set four seat cushions on the floor next to the bed and they were aligned with where her body had been on the bed. That way, if she had rolled right off the bed, she would have landed exactly on the cushions. You are such a good big brother! I am so proud of you for protecting your little sister!

Love,
Mom

Sunday, January 8, 2023

Lights Out

Dear Sawyer,

When I tuck you in every night, we do our good-night routine and then I put your bedroom light on the dimmest setting before leaving your room. When I was about to dim your lights tonight, though, you said, "I don't need the light. You can shut it off." #growingup #nomorenightlight

Love,
Mom