Monday, November 20, 2023

Museum Day

Dear Sawyer,

Today, I was lucky enough to be a parent chaperone for your class trip to The Metropolitan Museum of Art. I was excited that your teacher picked me because a) it was the first time I got to chaperone one of your class trips and b) it was your first time going to The Met and I was glad to be there with you.

You and I have gone to the American Museum of Natural History many times because, duh, dinosaurs but I never took you to The Met because I didn't think you'd be interested in the art. I was waiting for you to be a little older but I shouldn't have because you really enjoyed seeing all of the different sculptures and paintings today. Your class split into several groups and the tour guide for our group took us on a kind of "greatest hits" tour of the museum where we saw works by Monet, Degas, Renoir, Picasso, Pollack and Twombly. You listened intently to what she said about each piece we stopped to look at and said Monet's "Water Lilies" was your favorite artwork.

My favorite? How happy you looked when we sat next to each other on the bus rides to and from the museum. The other chaperones' kids sat with their friends but you said you wanted to sit next to me. And during the rides, you smiled up at me and hugged me several times. I could tell that you were really happy that I was there with you and I was touched that you are not "too cool" to hug your mom in front of your classmates. I had so much fun with you today, sweetie, and promise to take you back to The Met again soon!

Love,
Mom

Saturday, November 4, 2023

In Da Club

Dear Sawyer,

Every Friday, JieJie has a Fitness class where she and her classmates go to the school weight room and exercise. She was telling us about it at dinner last night and that prompted a conversation about how Daddy and I used to work out at a gym before we had kids. You and I had this exchange:

Me: I used to go to the gym every day from Sunday to Thursday. Then on Fridays and Saturdays, I went clubbing with my friends.
You: The chess club?
Me: Um, yes, exactly.
You: Nice! I got it on the first guess!

Hehehe :-)

Love,
Mom

Saturday, October 21, 2023

An Awesome Day for an Awesome Guy

Dear Sawyer,

We had a busy day today! First, we went to Chinatown and had a delicious dim sum meal with PoiPoi and my aunt and uncle. You had all of your favorites (sticky rice, shrimp dumplings, egg tarts) and also got to try bacon-wrapped shrimp for the first time. Afterward, we went to Chinatown Ice Cream Factory where you had a big scoop of mango ice cream. You have been really fascinated by 9/11 since watching a video about it in school this year, so we drove to the Financial District so that you could see the Freedom Tower and 9/11 Memorial. After that, I decided we needed to end the day on a more positive note, so we headed to Battery Park where we took a ride on the really cool SeaGlass Carousel (you initially had no interest in it until you saw that the seats were designed like giant fish and not just the standard merry-go-round horses) and walked along the water to take in views of the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island. With all that walking, we were soon hungry so we went back to Queens and had dinner at Taqueria Coatzingo, where you wolfed down your chicken quesadilla. At the end of the night, when I was helping you brush your teeth, you hugged me and said, "Thank you for making today awesome." You're welcome, little man!

Love,
Mom

Monday, September 18, 2023

Biker Boy

Dear Sawyer,

We don't get as much quality Mama-Sawyer time as I'd like but we did have a nice chunk of it this past Saturday when our family went to Rockaway Beach. Daddy took the other kids to the playground while you and I hopped on our bikes and rode down the boardwalk. It was so many of my favorite "b" things: biking, beach and my baby bear! I know you would have preferred to go to the playground (why does no one else in the family like biking and hiking like I do??) but you also still crave alone time with me, so you said you would do half biking/half playground. Thank your for spending the first half of the day with me! We rode to the western end of the boardwalk before turning around and then parked our bikes on the beach and walked across a jetty. You were a little scared to walk on top of the rocks but you did enjoy looking down between them to see the water and shells. I love how much you love collecting shells!

After we climbed down from the jetty, we got some arepas, empanadas and paletas before meeting up with the rest of the family. When everyone was finished eating, we headed back to the playground where Daddy decided to lift up the training wheels on your bike. You didn't want him to do it but he told you to just try it for a little bit and so you nervously pushed off and THEN YOU DID IT!!! You rode your bike without training wheels!!! I was so proud of you and you looked so proud of you! I loved how you were grinning and sticking the tip of your tongue out of the corner of your mouth while you were concentrating on, I guess, not falling? You were amazing!!! YAY!!!

Love,
Mom

Saturday, September 16, 2023

Brushing Buddies

Dear Sawyer,

You, MuiMui and I were all brushing our teeth in the bathroom this morning. You and MuiMui were standing over the tub and I was at the sink. I turned around to look at you and the two of you had your arms around each other while you were brushing. It. Was. SO. SWEET! I love witnessing these little moments between you guys!

Love,
Mom

Wednesday, September 13, 2023

No More Baby Songs

Dear Sawyer,

You had your fifth day of third grade today! This is a big year for you because a) you will be taking the New York State Exam for the first time and b) this will be your first time at your school without JieJie. This is also a notable year because apparently, up until second grade, the gym teacher always played the Kidz Bop versions of pop songs but you told me that when you had gym today as a newly minted third grader, the gym teacher played the actual versions of the songs. Well, now it's official! You are a big kid!

Love,
Mom

Sunday, July 23, 2023

The Baby Bunny Who Ate Too Many Carrots

Dear Sawyer,

JieJie just reminded me today about a bedtime story that I had made up years ago and used to tell you all of the time, at your request. It was about a baby bunny who loved eating carrots and it went like this:

"Once upon a time, there was a baby bunny who loved eating carrots. He loved eating carrots in the morning in his carrot oatmeal and carrot pancakes, he loved eating carrots in the afternoon in his carrot sandwiches and carrot juice and he loved eating carrots in the evening in his carrot soup and carrot pasta. In fact, he loved eating carrots so much that he didn't want to eat anything else. His parents tried to get him to eat other foods, like strawberries, spinach, chicken and fish but all he ever said was, "No! I only want to eat carrots! Carrots carrots carrots!" And so that's what his parents always cooked for him.

One morning, the baby bunny woke up and tried to get out of bed--but something was wrong! He had no legs! Or arms! He pushed his body off of the bed and managed to roll into the bathroom where he looked in the mirror--and saw that he had turned into a giant carrot! He had eaten so many carrots that he had actually turned into one! He rolled down the stairs and into the kitchen where his mom was making breakfast. He called out, "Mama! Mama!" His mom didn't look up because she was busy making carrot waffles. He called out again, "Mama! Mama!" This time, she looked up--and saw a giant carrot standing in her kitchen! She was so shocked that she fainted right there. The baby bunny's dad heard the commotion and came running into the kitchen. "Why is all this noise coming from the kitchen?" he asked. And then his next question was, "Why is there a giant carrot standing in the kitchen?!?" Then the baby bunny's sister came into the kitchen, "Is breakfast ready? My bus is going to be here soon. What is all this screaming about? OMG, is that a giant carrot?!?" The baby bunny cried out, "It's me! I turned into a carrot!!"

At this point, the baby bunny's mom had woken up and she said, "This is why you have to eat other foods! You can't only eat carrots!" The baby bunny said, "Okay, I will try other foods!" And so for the rest of the day, the baby bunny ate all kinds of things that he had never eaten before: corn, broccoli, watermelon, blackberries, grilled shrimp, meatloaf, beans, eggs--and he actually liked all of it! He said, "These foods are delicious!"

That night, the baby bunny went to bed. When he woke up the next morning, he hopped out of bed and ran to the bathroom mirror, where he saw that he was no longer a carrot--he was a baby bunny again! He ran down the stairs to tell his family and they all happily hugged each other! The baby bunny still likes to eat carrots--but he eats a lot of other foods, too! The end."

Okay, so my original story is not going to be turned into a published children's book anytime soon but for some reason, you really loved it and asked me to recite it to you night after night. I don't remember when you stopped asking for it and I actually hadn't thought about it in a long time. I'm not sure what made JieJie think of it all of a sudden but at least the story is now documented here in your blog. And maybe you'll tell it to your kid one day!

Love,
Mom